A decade after the Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage nationwide, we asked people from across the country to share stories of what the ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges has meant to them. NEW YORK CITY Michael Rucker Obergefell aroused our conflicting views on gay marriage. I harbored romantic fantasies. John remained adamantly opposed: Why mess … Continue reading
All I can do is continue to take those Lilliputian steps, as I did for so long after John died, hoping that, once more, they’ll get me to where I need to go. A few weeks ago, while holed up in my apartment like millions of other New Yorkers in this surreal period of self-isolation, … Continue reading
Meandering through grief, a man tries to replace his sofa. It doesn’t go well. John and I bought the sofa together when he moved into my apartment on 14th Street. I say “together” even though he probably paid for it, as he did with most of our major purchases back then. He made four times what … Continue reading
“FOCUS!” Don’t storm the projection booth when problems occur–just follow these simple steps King Theoden and his soldiers are defending the fortress as Helm’s Deep from the bloodthirsty orcs in The Two Towers. Just when Gandalf and his warriors come charging down the hill to save the day..the film grinds to a halt, leaving a … Continue reading
Golden Boy Writer David Ebershoff blazes a trail on the postgay frontier The death knell for gay literature, which has been ringing persistently for quite some time, just grew louder with Edmund White’s recent essay predicting the genre’s extinction as gay fiction becomes more commonly read by general audiences. As if on cue, gay writer … Continue reading
Fall Movie Preview Summer’s over. Time to hang up your sarong, put away your Speedo, and start thinking about entertaining yourself indoors. Luckily for you, Hollywood’s been working overtime while you’ve been lounging on the beach. Meaning there are, on average, nine movies opening on any given week through the end of the year. And … Continue reading
Crazy for You Years after a turbulent childhood, writer Augusten Burroughs can finally laugh about it. You’d never guess by looking at him that Augusten Burroughs was abandoned by his parents as a child. Or that his guardian, a demented psychiatrist, routinely overmedicated him. Or that his foster brother raped him. Despite a childhood filled … Continue reading
The first interview in which Nathan Lane acknowledged being gay. For real…look it up! Outward and Upward With the closet behind him, Nathan Lane is just getting started Nathan Lane puts up a good front. Although he’s been giving one-on-one interviews for the better part of a day, he insists he’s enjoying the grueling process … Continue reading
“The power of movie magic is never more evident than when seeing an actor in person and realizing they look nowhere near as glamorous or gorgeous as they do onscreen. Unfortunately, that’s the case all too often. But Paul Rudd is an exception…” Reluctant Hunk Paul Rudd prefers to let his acting speak for him … Continue reading
“She doesn’t worry that many people will be hearing her name for the first time as a result of such a racy performance. Quite the contrary, she’s proud that her first starring role is in a “transgressive film that’s a little hard to take” because, she says, “I really believe in what it’s saying…” Begging … Continue reading
Mike Rucker Writes 